Sometimes we do not know what will happen to our lives, or to our environment. There are things that suddenly come to life that you did not expect or anticipate. Like having a Covid 19 as of this moment, we do not expect but just happen. There are so many protocols and restrictions should be followed and not be followed. But why there are still violators to the rules that are implemented.
Just like in a relationship, things we didn’t expect but are happening. There are so many reasons but still hard to find an answer. So many pains and heartaches, but hard to seek comfort. Why does this need to happen? When will this end? To love is not easy, like obeying those rules if you feel hungry and thirsty. But to the point that we still hope, that all those questions, pains, suffering will be answered and end.
In every relationship there’s going to arguments, fights, smiles, tears, up and downs. Things said out to anger, mad exes, attitudes and jealously. But at the end of the day, if you truly love that person, you will stick around through the good and bad. It’s during the toughest times of your life that you’ll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you. Notice who stick around and who doesn’t, and be grateful to those who leave you, for they have given you the room to grow in the space they abandoned, and the awareness to appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel lovable.
One day it just clicks. You realize what is important what isn’t. You learn to care less what other people think of you and more about what you think of yourself. You realize how far you’ve come and you remember when you thought things were such a mess that you would never recover. And you smile. You smile because you are truly proud of yourself and the person you’ve fought to become.
To have a good relationship must communicate, talk about things, the good and bad. Build trust. Be honest. Be faithful. Be there for one another. Make time for one another. Leave the past to the past. Know that having arguments are normal. Know that you won’t always be happy. Don’t expect change. Appreciate the flaws. Appreciate each other. Lastly, love each other unconditionally.
Now if you’re having difficulty this time of crisis due to Covid 19, time comes this will end soon as we cooperate the implementations of the government. Just stay home, be safe and pray.
As what I’m doing, I stayed and worked at the comfort of my home and made a Facebook Page for my Online Teaching. You may visit @ https://bit.ly/onlineTEACHING. Although I’m alone and far with someone, but were still stronger by the grace of God that soon this crisis will end and will unite again.
” Distance will never separates two hearts that really care.”
Ana V. Pagalaman