A Child’s Pain Of Losing A Mother

A mother’s impact in a child’s life goes beyond the emotional. A loving mother would consider her children before anything else, and as they get older, they’ll begin to understand her irreplaceable role in their lives. The mother-child relationship is a strongly influential one, and her presence alone is everything you need to have a strong emotional base in life.

Losing a mother is one of the most devastating things in the world.  It happens and we somehow find the strength to go on.  The days turn into weeks, the weeks turn into months, and before we know it here we are years later, wondering how we have made it this far without them physically in our lives. Losing someone you love is hard, you won’t feel like your old self. It will hurt. The memories of the past will threaten to suck the joy out of the whole day, the chair not sat in, the voice that you won’t be able to hear again and the smell of her warmth embrace.

You’ll always miss your mom but there are moments in life that you just miss her a little bit more than usual. You’ll miss her when you’re just riding your way back home and she suddenly pops out of your mind thinking how she usually greeted you at home or how she looks like at home sitting on the sofa just watching her favorite noon time show. You’ll miss her when you see other with their mothers. You’ll miss her when something great happens and she is the first person you want to call. You’ll miss her cooked foods. You’ll miss her presence, her voice, her touch, the way she takes care of you and your family. Remember that she never wanted to leave too early and nothing in this world that she wouldn’t done to be able to see you live out your life, achieved your dreams and learn from your every mistakes. When you miss your mom, go that extra step to make her proud, live the life she wanted you to live reach that dream you always tells her you will achieved, be the person she dreamed you to be. Losing a mother is one of the deepest sorrows a heart can know. But her goodness, her caring and her wisdom will live on like a legacy of love that will always be with you forever.

Just don’t remember your mom with sadness, don’t remember her with tears. Just remember her with all the laughter you’ve shared throughout the years. Just when you are walking down the street and she got into your mind. She’s just walking with you just a half step behind so please don’t be unhappy when she’s out of your sight just remember she’s always with you every day of your life.

But most importantly, when you miss your mom know that it is okay to cry and to miss somebody that much, that’s what unconditional love is and that’s what she has teach you.

“A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us He only takes the best”

-By an unknown author

Leoniza Cueto Certeza

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